Tuesday’s Love Jones – Types of Orgasms All Grown Women Should Be Having!


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We all ready know that female sexuality is a bit more complex than men’s, but it is so complex, a lot of couples out there have experimented with sexual games, or people decide to explore their bodies to get to know themselves better

  1. The clitoris: We call it the success locket

This is the most well-known sexual part of the woman, and it’s the easiest orgasm to achieve because it is the most easily accessed. It can easily be caressed. Women love being stimulated in this area, and men already know the path to driving their partner crazy.

  1. The vaginal orgasm

This is also another well-known one, and for some more reserved couples, it’s the only one. It’s also one of the most difficult orgasm types to achieve. Simple penetration does not stimulate the famous G spot.

In order to achieve this orgasm, you need to try hard and concentrate. Even though it’s complex, we recommend that you don’t toss it aside, because it can be extremely satisfying.

To do this you will need good communication is important with your partner. There are different positions that can stimulate this area: standing, kneeling, sitting, from behind or from the side—go until you find the perfect position.

  1. The mixed orgasm – The Winner

This is one of the most intense of all female orgasm types, and it is achieved by stimulating the clitoris along with reaching vaginal stimulation. It’s also known as a complete orgasm. Here the woman feels her entire body tremble, and is sensitive to all sensations.

There are a lot of women that don’t realize that, in addition to the G spot, the clitoris has ramifications around the vulva and inside the vagina, which is why you can stimulate both of them at the same time.

This can be achieved by stimulating both areas simultaneously. And since it’s not easily done the first few times around, you might need to do a basic body analysis. As the woman, we always recommend that you help. Try positions where you’re on top, and switch between different types of movements until finding the perfect one. Just this…you can do it!!!

4. Exercising at the gym can give you an orgasm

Running together.

According to a new study, women don’t need a man, or vibrators, or even direct sexual stimulation to reach an orgasm. The phenomenon that is female sexual pleasure can be induced by exercise.

PawiiOrgasmYou might be the type of woman that goes to the gym every day, or perhaps you climbed some steep stairs and felt a certain kind of tickle. If so, you have experienced sexual pleasure caused by exercise.

These orgasm types won’t produce in you even half of the sensations that you’ll feel in the previously mentioned ones. Some women have developed this way of feeling pleasure, making it more and more pleasurable and intense; abs, bicycling, aerobics or running. You won’t lose anything by trying it. Although, it is pretty gross to think of woman orgasming all over our local gym!!!!

In Closing…

Reaching an orgasm might not be the easiest thing in the world for women, primarily if you don’t know your own body. Get to know your body and practice, practice, practice!!!

Fat and Unimaginative? – Tuesday’s Love Jones!


First in today’s quick entertainment news: 

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Fat and Unimaginative? – Tuesday’s Love Jones!

I want him to pacify me each night and sometimes each morning.  He may awaken me every day by my gliding himself over my lips, pressing gently against them, urging me to part my lips so that my tongue may openly greet him.   He may tease me by stroking himself as I suck on the head of it allowing his fingers to bump against my lips as he helps me please him fully. ~ Evangeline

There is no reason that a person shouldn’t feel as though they are getting the most out of sex just because of their weight. Sex in a relationship is way too important to let poundage get in the way!Get Yo Life My advice is to GET YO LIFE….Your Sex Life that is!!!

One thing that challenges a lot of fat people when it comes to sex is feeling sexy. It can be hard to find sexy underwear and lingerie that fits fat people, and if you’re feeling uncomfortable with your
body, your confidence will go way down. There are multiple ways I’ve found to help calm those nerves. Go shopping online for lingerie. There are so many sites that have great sizes in all sizes that are complimenting to the curvy girl and very sexy.  Try Lane Bryant, Torrid and For Play Catalog for starters.

NowDOGGIE for some great positions that will get the job done…

Good old fashion DOGGIE:

Doggie is a great position because it gives your partner plenty of room to work with, plus the belly is out of the way. This position props your butt up creating lots of space for penetration. It’s comfortable and EFFECTIVE!

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Be the Woman on Top:

Give yourself permission to ride your lover until the cows come home forward and backwards. When you have gained weight I know it feels uncomfortable to see
yourself like that, but don’t be afraid to enjoy your body NOW while on the journey to they way you want to look physically.

Get your Missionary Work In:

If you have a bit of a belly, get out those pillows! Put a pillow right under your butt. This will give your partner optimal thrusting room since this positioning moves your thighs out of the way and really opens the vagina up for deep penetration.

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Hope this helps and have an awesome Tuesday!

Tuesday’s Love Jones – Tatful Tips for the Perfect Orgasm!


tumblr_lfqvj3Ax4s1qz7ltxo1_500For a LOT of men (NOT ALL), the female orgasm can be a TOTAL mystery to say the least and for some women, (NOT ALL) taking time to teach your guy how and where to please you can take away from the enjoyment of sex! Not everyone is fit to be teachers and there are a lot of women that don’t find joy in directly showing a man steps to her orgasmic state.

AskKat says that women can experience different types of orgasms and can even have multiple orgasms? It’s true! Sadly, many women can go YEARS without an orgasm from her partner, and AIN’T NOBODY GOT TIME FOR THAT!

We, of Put A Wedge In It Blogs, do earnestly urge confident girls to speak up and tell your guy exactly what you want IN BED, but for those that don’t…fellas we have some tatful tips that will help you help yourself next time you’re intimate with your lady.

SEX DOESN’T NEED TO START IN THE BEDROOM – When was the last time6653207d1ab5b875223c2bfa42944012 you surprised her with flowers or something special just because? Believe it or not, for women, silly romantic gestures turn women just because it’s something that you took special time to do and that is sexy as hell. Do this and I personally promise that you’ll be doing more than just going to sleep tonight.

SEDUCE HER – Orgasm don’t come easy when a woman is stressed, so give her a foot massage to melt away that stress.

TEND TO THE PASSION OF THE MOMENT – Focus all your attention on the woman first and this session will be much more passionately. Focus on genuinely pleasing every inch of her body selflessly.

TAKE A BLIND EYE TO VAJAYJAY – Sexual teasing actually increases a woman’s orgasm. Kissing, caressing and touching her builds sexual tension and anticipation which leads to an 1095012_637566816267276_715127740_nexplosive orgasm.

MAKE IT LAST – The best way NOT to come so quickly is to penetrate as normal, but when you feel like you’ll release. Just slow it down a bit until the feeling of coming subsides. You can do it if you really want her to enjoy a great orgasm. No one likes when a guy comes too fast.

NATURAL WETNESS – A woman’s vajayjay is a dream machine (if she’s healthy) as stated in “Learning to Protect Your Marriage” her natural lubricant is more than enough. Those store bought lubes are nowhere near better than the real thing.

BE EASY ON THE CLIT – Did you know that once you’ve overly stimulated the clitoris there’s a little thing called the clitoral hood that will actually come out and cover the clitoris to protect it from further direct stimulation? (True stuff, fellas)! When that happens, this would be a great time to sexually venture somewhere else, the G-spot.

SPOT THE “G” SHE WILL THANK YOU – The G-spot is a zone that feels like the roof of your mouth and is located about 2 inches inside the vagina on the topside. There are two basic ways you can pleasure the G. With your fingers by doing a “come here” motion or with a love position that helps hit the G-spot and be sure to clip your nails if you are attempting this.9ec3e977387ca1d75f9c92ca7f471b8d

LET HER BE IN CONTROL – One of THEE best positions for women to secure an orgasm is the reverse missionary (on top). She can control the friction to her clitoris and/or G-spot perfectly.

EAT IT – THEE BESTEST way to help a woman reach orgasm, even multiple orgasms, is by going down on her (cunnilingus style). There are over 6,000 nerve ending in the clitoris alone and oral sex is is good way to bring your tongue in on the action.

Hope these tips helped!

Keep us posted with you love life…we wanna hear from you

 

Tuesday’s Love Jones – Steamed VaJayJay!


Vicki Velato, of Erotic Tranquility shared a wonderful idea with PAWII Blogs that we just had to try!  Vaginal steaming is an ideal complimentary treatment for women with any gynecological, but the most lovely result of this treatment is that it helps us ladies connect with our bodies down there.

This VaJayJay Steam treatment is relaxing, rejuvenating and for some reason (and it can be all in my head) but it seems to give a sexual boost out of the world!!!  Some women have been known to have an on the spot orgasms within the first 2 minutes of the treatment.

Of course, we didn’t try it for the possible orgasm benefit, we tried it for the great benefits below…..

Benefits of Vaginal Steam Treatments

Vagina Steam baths bring heat to the womb. The use of specific herbs adds layers of different healing benefits, depending on the fertility-related health condition being treated.

Different herbs have different healing actions. The combination of herbs work to nourish, tone, heal, bring in fresh oxygenated blood, promote cleansing, and make supple the vaginal and uterine tissues.

The moist heat opens the pores of the tissues it comes into contact with. The water vapor carries the medicinal benefits of the plants, including volatile oils. This is absorbed into the tissues and enters the bloodstream, having a direct healing effect on the reproductive system.

Vaginal tissue is one of the most absorbent of the entire female body. Note: Do not use essential oils in your vagi-steam treatments this is because they may burn the delicate tissues of the genitals.

During the V-Steam, women rest on bottomless stools (not unlike toilet seats) that are positioned over the bubbling cauldrons. The women are wrapped in raincoat-like ponchos that trap in the heat and moisture, as well as provide a modicum of privacy, while their genitals get the sauna treatment. And just how long does this luxurious therapy last? Anywhere from 20 to 45 minutes. Try Tikkun Holistic Spa  in Santa Monica California.

Traditional Herbs Used for Vagi-Steam

Rosemary: Increases circulation to the reproductive organs, aids in clearing out of old fluids, is also antiseptic and purifying.

Lavender: One of the most relaxing herbs, calms the mind and body and nourishing to the nervous system.

Oregano: herb is used for its antiseptic, stimulating and strengthening qualities. Oregano is a wonderful herb for aiding in prevention of infection.

Marigold: Tagetes erecta is used to induce perspiration, cleansing of the vaginal tissues. It is also healing to wounds. Calendula  officinalis aids in the healing of tight scarred tissues of the labia and perineum due to Episiotomy, or vaginal tear.

Basil: May reduce painful menstruation and helps to bring on menstruation.

Rose petals: Rose petals are gentle and astringent to tissues of the genitals. Rose is a relaxing and uplifting herb.

Other herbs used in combination with above herbs: Burdock leaf, Motherwort, St. John’s Wart, Yarrow, Red Clover, Damiana, Chamomile, Dandelion, Yellow Dock, and Squaw Vine. Traditional Chinese Medicine herbs often used are Mugwort and Wormwood.

Do it at home…but be safe! Do not steam an open wound, this could cause pain and swelling.