Tuesday’s Love Jones – My ‘Work Husband’ Is Messing Up My Marriage!

It may be innocent but then again, you may accidentally fall in love.

At what point is your relationship with your work spouse a threat to your actual marriage or relationship? This is an important question to ask yourself if you want to keep trust and connection strong with your romantic partner or spouse, right? There IS such a thing as an emotional affair. It is potentially just as destructive as a sexual affair. The tricky thing about an emotional affair is that you may be in one and not even realize it.

A few signs of an emotional affair are:

  • Secrets about what you said or did with the other person
  • a stronger emotional bond than the love relationship or marriage
  • a preference for the friend instead of the partner and
  • feelings of sexual attraction underlying the friendship

The work spouse relationship is one unfortunate way to set yourself up for an emotional affair without meaning to.

And, here are a few reasons why:

Most of us have pretty clear expectations of what it is to be a wife or husband and that almost always includes sexual intimacy. When you call someone your work husband or work wife, you send mixed messages about what you’re looking for in what would otherwise be a professional relationship.

Confusion about what it means to be a “work couple” can very easily lead to one (or both) of you crossing the boundary between friendship and romantic relationship.

The implication in a relationship like this is that you are gravitating toward this person you work with instead of toward your actual spouse or romantic partner. When you devote time, attention and energy to your work spouse, the results are disconnection and distance in your love relationship or marriage.


The confidences you share with your work husband or the way you’ve come to depend on your work wife/husband will inevitably trigger jealousy. Trust gets damaged in the process and that can take a very long time to heal.

Think about it this way: what happens when you have two pots of soup on the stove and you’re trying to stir and add spices to them both at the same time? Maybe you can care for them both equally, but it’s likely that you’ll neglect one in favor of the other. The soup you focus less of your attention on is probably going to burn.

In Closing…

If you’ve elected to be in a monogamous relationship, it’s up to you to choose. Which relationship is most important to you??? If it’s your relationship with your spouse or romantic partner, then that’s the one you should focus upon the most.

I am so NOT saying that you can’t make friends with or share fun and meaningful experiences with your co-workers, but I am reminding you to be honest with yourself. When you feel dissatisfied at home, get to the root of that dissatisfaction. Look for what’s causing you to feel the way you do and then communicate with your partner — without blaming — and come up with solutions that help you both feel fulfilled and excited by the continued growth in your relationship.


Tuesday’s Love Jones – Types of Orgasms All Grown Women Should Be Having!


We all ready know that female sexuality is a bit more complex than men’s, but it is so complex, a lot of couples out there have experimented with sexual games, or people decide to explore their bodies to get to know themselves better

  1. The clitoris: We call it the success locket

This is the most well-known sexual part of the woman, and it’s the easiest orgasm to achieve because it is the most easily accessed. It can easily be caressed. Women love being stimulated in this area, and men already know the path to driving their partner crazy.

  1. The vaginal orgasm

This is also another well-known one, and for some more reserved couples, it’s the only one. It’s also one of the most difficult orgasm types to achieve. Simple penetration does not stimulate the famous G spot.

In order to achieve this orgasm, you need to try hard and concentrate. Even though it’s complex, we recommend that you don’t toss it aside, because it can be extremely satisfying.

To do this you will need good communication is important with your partner. There are different positions that can stimulate this area: standing, kneeling, sitting, from behind or from the side—go until you find the perfect position.

  1. The mixed orgasm – The Winner

This is one of the most intense of all female orgasm types, and it is achieved by stimulating the clitoris along with reaching vaginal stimulation. It’s also known as a complete orgasm. Here the woman feels her entire body tremble, and is sensitive to all sensations.

There are a lot of women that don’t realize that, in addition to the G spot, the clitoris has ramifications around the vulva and inside the vagina, which is why you can stimulate both of them at the same time.

This can be achieved by stimulating both areas simultaneously. And since it’s not easily done the first few times around, you might need to do a basic body analysis. As the woman, we always recommend that you help. Try positions where you’re on top, and switch between different types of movements until finding the perfect one. Just this…you can do it!!!

4. Exercising at the gym can give you an orgasm

Running together.

According to a new study, women don’t need a man, or vibrators, or even direct sexual stimulation to reach an orgasm. The phenomenon that is female sexual pleasure can be induced by exercise.

PawiiOrgasmYou might be the type of woman that goes to the gym every day, or perhaps you climbed some steep stairs and felt a certain kind of tickle. If so, you have experienced sexual pleasure caused by exercise.

These orgasm types won’t produce in you even half of the sensations that you’ll feel in the previously mentioned ones. Some women have developed this way of feeling pleasure, making it more and more pleasurable and intense; abs, bicycling, aerobics or running. You won’t lose anything by trying it. Although, it is pretty gross to think of woman orgasming all over our local gym!!!!

In Closing…

Reaching an orgasm might not be the easiest thing in the world for women, primarily if you don’t know your own body. Get to know your body and practice, practice, practice!!!

Tuesday’s Love Jones – How Women Know You Are A Lying Wonder!

Seeing right through someones cheating ways these days are easy…mainly because we now have text message proof and online proof leaving electronic trals all over the place. We no longer have to go by the typical signs such as: weight loss, new wardrobe or sudden reasons why “working late” is happening.

How we KNOW you is LYING!

Talking Different: When they use expressions they have never used before is a sign of perhaps spending time a lot with someone else.

Proclaims Honesty Repeatedly: To sell us on the integrity of their answers, liars oftenbreak-up2 use phrases emphasizing the validity of their statements, like “to tell the truth” and “to be perfectly honest.” These verbal tip-offs frequently invoke religion. Think of expressions like “I swear on a stack of Bibles” and “as God is my witness.” Most truthful people don’t need to go that far.

So Defensiveness: If you habitually disbelieve someone, they may habitually feel defensive when you ask them about stuff. But if they seem overly reactive and you haven’t been aggressively interrogating them or obviously disbelieving, then that might indicate they are stressed because they are lying and may be using emotional distraction via a smokescreen to veer conversation away from the lying onto how awful you are.

Acting Like Non-Self: Experts believe changes in a person’s baseline personality can show something is off.  How a person generally conducts themselves are worthy of your attention. You should weigh rate of speech, tone of voice, posture, and hand gestures against what you know, along with the context of the situation.

RePostMonday - How Good is Your Liar Detection?In Closing: A woman’s intuition is clad steal, but the signs above will solidify our gut feelings. When patterns of our spouses change, so does the way we feel about them. NO ONE wants to be taken for a fool and NO ONE wants to be deliberately lied to in a relationship.

When lies creep into a relationship, the other person is not liberated to be who they really are. Instead, the other person become more like a local investigator, untrusting and this most likely will soon effect sex in the relationship.

If you are the liar in the relationship or the person with the gut feelings, I urge you both to evaluate what it is you want out of life…by this I mean “stop playing games” and move on to what it is you know you deserve in a relationship.

TLj – Sex in the Morning!

Sleep is one of the best things you can do for your health, but morning sex may be apawiiblogs morning sex GOOD reason to wake extra early for.

There are literally so many health benefits to having morning sex. Sex may improve both your mental and physical well-being. Sex can improved mood that will potentially lower blood pressure, so that alone you can give one a good mood before facing morning traffic, a talkative uber driver or the goofy barista that never you’re your drink right.

And, OMG…in addition to your everyday health habits, morning sex may be just the thing to help you have fewer colds and perhaps even experience less pain.

Science says, if you’re combatting chronic conditions or trying to reduce stress, morning sex may be the cure for what ails you. Better than medicine, right?

How Morning Sex It Lowers Blood Pressure…

Blood pressure is one of those things you don’t even think about until you visit your doctor and realize there is need for concern. However, sex may be a great way lower blood pressure, at least according to WebMD. A little morning relations may be just the thing to keep that systolic number low.

How Morning Sex Lessens Periods…

Waking up to period paid is THEE worse! But Aunt Flo may have to take a backseat. Having an orgasm can help expel your blood more quickly, potentially causing shorter periods. Morning sex is a good way to counteract the general ickiness of menstrual cycles.

How Morning Sex Improves Self-Esteem…

When you have something to smile about, doesn’t the day go by better? And yes, exercising can improve your self-esteem and help you feel desirable and attractive. But, morning sex can too!

Morning Sex Keeps Your Heart Healthy…

Looking after your heart (the physical one) can be an easy task. According to Everyday Health, your risk of fatal heart disease may decrease when your orgasms increase.

pawiistuffMorning Sex Reduces Pain…

If you wake up with a headache most mornings, then this may be your favorite tip. Did you know that the release of hormones during orgasm may help block the perception of pain?  While hormones may help increase your pain threshold, sex (on the other hand) can serve as a wonderful distraction from even the worst aches.

Morning Sex Boosts Brainpower…

It’s helpful to start off the day as sharp as possible. And, according to a University of Amsterdam study in the Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, sex may help improve your analytical thinking skills.

Morning Sex PawiiBlogsMorning Sex Gives You a Pass on the Gym…

Early morning rolls in the bed may not produce the same effects as running. But, it still counts as something. Turns out, sex may burn as many calories as a half-hour jog.

Morning Sex Boosts Your Immunity…

Say goodbye to calling in sick days! Adding a little morning grinding to your daily routine may be just what the doctor ordered. Turns out, sex may Mixed race woman blowing her nosehelp keep you healthy by boosting your levels of IgA, which is an antibody that can help fight off infection. What a fun way to protect yourself from colds and other nasty sicknesses in the wee hours of the morning with some loving in the morning. Another great read: Create Sexy Sex