Get “Stripper” Confident!

Why do men love strip clubs? …Is an age old question that women have been pondering over for generations. Some men think frequenting strip clubs are just boys being boys, a fun pass time or a choice of entertainment. While women on the other hand, look at these frequent visitations as a form of cheating. Some women my may even deduct spending (what seems to be) intimate time with another female may become a filler for ultimate rejection to her in the relationship.

Some men don’t like strip clubs at all and some, no matter what they got at home will still go on the hunt!

When men enter the building of a strip club, in most cases hospitality overwhelmed the place. They are greeted with friendly smiles, positivity and respect right from the very start.

Even when people came in as couples, the hostess’s becames even more respectful and humble as well. When men go to these clubs, they know FOR SURE that if they spend money THEY WILL have a good time. They also know that rejection most likely will NOT happen.

Realize this:

• Men, as a general rule, are visually stimulated and, for the most part, can separate the act of sex from their emotions.
• And two, the male ego is quite likely the most fragile creature on the planet.

Another reason men flock to strip clubs is because they can live out secret fantasies with a beautiful woman. The average man understands that most of the working girls in these clubs would never date them in a real life setting. But for the moment the man has a gorgeous woman before him actually agreeing with everything he says and he LOVES it.  Unlike the way his wife or girlfriend may receive him. No nagging, no rejection. In fact, the word “NO” doesn’t even seem exist in the building. For his pleasure, sexy naked women sitting right in front of him yielding to his every whim that he is willing to pay for LOL!

How about this:

• Take the time to dress for love making (just like the strippers do).
Visit an adult store for ideas, such as
Stop by your local adult store and shop away.

• Take time to seduce (just like the strippers do).
Learn how to use an in home stripper pole by visiting

• Take time to smile, show hospitality and respect (just like the strippers do).

• Take care of you bodies (The same way a stripper has to).
Workout to stay healthy and to keep stamina for lasting sex by visiting a local gym in your area.

In closing, in no fashion or form does “My Stiletto Dreams” suggest that ALL men go to strip clubs or that ALL women need to become strippers. All we are suggesting is that in relationships there is always room to Grow, Compromise and Become Better to and for one another.

by Katrina Gurl

Private Party by Victoria Velato

Private Party

Somewhere along the line
Somewhere along the line
we fell out of sync.
You stopped telling me
the things I needed to hear
to keep my spirits afloat.
You haven’t told me that I’m beautiful,
and I began to believe I was ugly.
You take no notice of how smart I am,
but point out all my mistakes.
Dinner used to include a glass of wine,
now it involves a drive thru window
and food wrapped in paper.
You don’t even look at me anymore.

Look at me.
Listen to me NOW.

It’s time to close the gap.
We are all we have.
If we don’t love each other,
we’ll never discover the love we want.
So let’s start over.
Repeat after me:

You are beautiful.
You are talented.
You are smart.
You are funny.
You are worthy to be loved.
You are valuable.
You are a gift.
You are a treasure
and I love you just the way you are.

Let’s celebrate this love!

by Victoria Velato

Only Girl in the World by Mimi Neko

Only Girl in the World

Listening to your movements, I can see that its time.
You’ve been so patient with my, keeping only my needs in mind.
I’m not a beginner but I needed to hurry up and wait.
Not everything needs to be done on the first date.
As you reveal yourself to me I am thoroughly impressed.
I stare in awe as you carefully undress.
When it is my turn to show I insist that you do the work.
Be gently with my negligee, don’t tug, twist or jerk.
Your hands are magical, they know just where to go.

They know my thoughts and what I like, not too fast and not too slow.
Before we get to where we need to go, I can leave you with one guarantee,
Before you leave from next to me you will be in ecstasy.
My name will be uttered and toes will curl.
I’ll make you feel like I’m the only girl in the world.
Are you ready to beg and need me so bad?
From now until forever I’ll be the best you ever had.

by Mimi Neko

The Way You Kiss by Victoria Velato

Kissing is one of THEE most important types of affection in a relationship. A kiss has an uncanny ability to show just what level of love, like or affection you have for a person. Boost your sexual confidence by kissing your man. Show him exactly how you feel about him.
The Way You Kiss
I like the way you kiss.
A little pressing,
a little sucking,
a little licking
makes me moan.
And as I caress your body,
you grab my hip and pull me deeper
as your hands begin to creep,
touching the innermost part of me.
Boy, you are going to make me scream
if you keep kissing my lips so intense.
What you are doing makes no sense.
Don’t you stop!
I’m climbing the walls.
You make me hot,
I’m trying to hold on.
But you are so determined to break me,
I’ll let you do it,
but I need you to kiss me harder.
I can’t hold on!
I’m letting go!
You know how to make my loving flow.
You smile at me with satisfaction,
and I smile back with sheer bliss.
I lay in your arms shivering with happiness,
and longing for another kiss.

Written byVictoria Velato