TLj – Voiceless Signs of His Love!

There are many love languages that speak to everyone in different ways. Body language reveals how connected and attracted someone is to you. So it’s good to learn about what different gestures and postures mean about how the other person feels.

Body Language that Men Love You Deeply – He Wants to Serve You and Make You Comfortable

When you find your man going out of his way to make sure you feel comfortable and have everything you need, this is definitely a sign that he deeply loves you. Like when you sit down for a movie, he gets up to get you a drink, or when you’re out on the town and it starts to get chilly, he offers you his jacket. When he’s paying close attention to your needs, it’s the real deal!

He Looks at You with Sincerity

Men that avoid eye contact could be hiding something from you, or it could mean that they’re not trustworthy. Looking into someone’s eyes is a very vulnerable act, so if he’s gazing into your eyes all the time, he’s got some deep feelings for you; and he wants to look into your eyes to find validation that you feel the same.

He Throws in Down in the Kitchen

Want to know the most obvious body language that a man loves you? He wants you to love his food, and love him too. Bon appetite!!!

He Wants to Be Close to You

The body language of men in love could include hand holding, putting his arm around you, leaning towards you when sitting together, among many other gestures that are pointed in your direction.

He Can’t Hear Anyone but You

He’s totally in love with you when he hangs on to every single word you say. An in love man that gives you his full attention, even in a crowded room. He listens attentively, and his responses are thoughtful and vibrant. This is completely natural and it’s because he’s so into every move you make.

He Smiles When He Sees You

When your man greets you with a blank face, he’s probably losing affection. But if he flashes his pearly whites at you, then he’s obviously happy to see you! He thinks you’re gorgeous, funny, and fascinating. When he keeps smiling at you throughout the time that you spend together, then you’re making him happy and he wants to keep spending quality time with you.

He Is Chivalrous

While acts of chivalry could simply be an indicator of general politeness, a man is definitely falling for a woman when he goes out of his way to open doors for you, pull out your chair, and give you his coat when it’s chilly. A true gentleman will always take care of you in these little ways, which also give a signal to other men that you are all his.

He Takes Care of His Appearance

The body language of men in love also includes his appearance. If he takes care of the way he looks for you, which means he wants to impress you, no matter how many years you’ve been together.

Kat’s Call…

Even if he hasn’t expressed his love for you verbally, there could be plenty of nonverbal signs that he’s totally in love with you. If you’re on the lookout for clues that he’s in L-O-V-E with you, watch out for some of the signs in this post and PLEASE REMEMBER THAT ACTIONS ALWAYS SPEAKS LOUDER THAN WORDS!!!

Put A Wedge In It – Married with a Crush!

Being married with a little crush is no big deal if you’re all grown up and here is why…

It shouldn’t be really surprising to learn that your partner may be attracted to someone else. Just because a person notices the opposite sex does not mean that it’s the end of your relationship. And heck, if you’re honest with yourself, you’ve probably checked out other people just within the last second ago or two. But, that by no means mean infidelity IF you are in a committed relationship.

In fact, new research from Indiana University finds that 70 percent of women in relationships admit to having crushes on other guys.

Yep, I’m talkin full-on crushes.

I mean the kind of crush where you blush, flirt and even become fully excited when a particular guy enters a room. Furthermore, in the study, women who had been in a relationship for at least 3 years answered open-ended questions about their crushes. And, this was a study amongst full grown seasoned adults, not college kids.

Crushes don’t just magically stop during adolescence either. They continue right on throughout our lives and it is natural. However, it is how we handle our crush is where the real love and respect for our significant others step in.

If your relationship is solid, a crush can be a passing fad. But, if your relationship is rocky it can become more really fast. For example: If I had a crush (and Lord knows I have), I usually snap out of it and realize I wouldn’t really want to break my marriage up for something that very well may fad. So, managing your feelings is key.

How to Handle the Fact that you are Crushing HARD…!!!

• Remember that it’s natural!

Though you may think you’re the worst wife/girlfriend in the world for even thinking that someone else is funnier, cuter or sexier than your undisputed one true love, the truth is that you’re not evil, you’re just human. In fact, you’ve only succumbed to the same natural phenomenon as millions of other good, decent men and women.

• Have control!

Yes, I know those stomach butterflies are real…but it’s how you behave in the face of temptation that reveal your true character.

• Look at the person you really are!

Ask yourself: Is this crush magnified because you are unhappy with your partner? A crush may reveal trouble in paradise or it may indicate that you’ve allowed too much emotional distance within your relationship. Spend less time thinking about that cute guy at work and more quality time with your partner and make sure it’s time spent laughing, talking, and confiding in one another.

• Are you just lonely?

Keep your crush to yourself, but if you’re feeling lonely or undesirable or just missing some affection from your significant other, that’s information your partner should know. It isn’t necessary for our partner to know about the content of our fantasies, nor that we are even having them, but rather to be engaged in a discussion with them about what we are needing or missing in the relationship and how we can get it from them, in order that the two of us feel closer again.

• Remember, your relationship is worth the fight!

Studies show that couples that grow together, stay together. So keep the love alive by continually experiencing new places, ideas and experiences with your partner. Draw your beloved closer and decide to take on the world…with all of its temptations, joys, sorrows and struggles…TOGETHER.

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Chestnuts and Such!

One can barely believe that this time of year has even come around this fast, but here we are in the thick of it all. Busy streets, lit up houses and desperate shoppers all over the place. The thing I want to cherish a little more this year is family and friends and take note of old traditions. Every year back home, we’d always rely on our mother to make Thanksgiving and Christmas magical, but this year WE made Thanksgiving pretty magical with my sister visiting and us all cooking together.

Out of all the Christmas traditions, there is one that I have never done and that is roasting chestnuts on an open fire.  It;s just never really presented itself as an action in my life, but this year
I think I’m gonna make it a point to do that this year. This year I will make memories that we can laugh about for years to come.

With recent shootings and terrorist threats all around the world, may we draw closer to God and even closer to our family and loved ones!

I truly wish you all happy holidays and will see you again right here in February…just in time for black history month. 🙂

Cheers to the holidays and happy New Year!!!

Pic taken by my sister, Cyrelle!

Dating in the Comfort of Your Own Home – Tuesday’s Love Jones!

Okay Readers…

So, we are in the thick of fall and things are pretty chilly outside, right? I literally love this time of the year, but the hubby hates it…he can’t wait for summer to come back.

When the weather is not the way you’d like it to be things can become boring and mundane in the relationship, but allow this post to help you and your mate to help you get through it.

Try some Stay at Home Dates…

RULES: NO FIGHTING, No talking about problems, JUST HAVE FUN!

~ Go on an appreciation dinner date. Before you take each bite of food or each sip from your drink, tell your spouse something you appreciate about him or her or something you appreciate that he or she has done recently or in the past.

~ Go on a virtual tour of museums online @ http://www.louvre.fr/en/visites-en-ligne

~ Listen to some old music you grew up with and chat about great memories.

~ Add a romantic twist to a board game. For example, with monopoly do something kinky to the other player when one lands in jail.

~ Recreate scenes from your favorite movies.

~ Redesign your bedroom together by creating a romantic ambiance that you both agree on.

~ Bake something together. The hubs and I make an AMAZING sweet potato pie over the holidays.

~ Write a letter on paper to your partner

~ Play indoor tag. When you catch each other think of something fun you can do like kiss for 30 seconds, etc.

~ Read scriptures together….Song of Solomon is quite intriguing .

~ Have a shower or bathtub date together.

~ Pretend you are a fashion photographer and do a photo shoot of your spouse.

~ Interview your spouse and write a biography about him or her.

~ Find a nearby FALL FAIR!!!!

~ Play hide and go seek. Think of romantic rewards that you can give to your spouse when he or she finds you.

~ Make hot chocolate and watch the rain or snow together.

~ Feed each other a meal.

~ Give each other foot massages.

~ Then plan your dream weekend getaway.

~ Take a long drive somewhere.

These are just a few ideas for the season, but feel free to make some of your very own. Have an amazing Tuesday!!! ~ Kat 🙂