TLj – Certain Thirst!


a4b0d90a2d9b4895e9d41dcb52e9a9a1--black-love-couples-black-couples-engagement-photosCertain Thirst by Katrina Gurl

Jessica and Ian hadn’t seen one another other in a while. Their long distance relationship made them very anxious to see one another.  Jessica Peters, a 28 year old news anchor in New York and Ian Hunter, a 32 year old Chemical Engineer for Saco Industries, Connecticut.   They only met up two times a month because of their hectic and busy lifestyles, but they were more than determined to make their relationship work; no matter what!

It was Jessica’s turn to drive down to see Ian this time, since he had driven to her the last two times.  She figured she’d do the right thing by taking the two hour drive and since the whether wasn’t so bad, she didn’t even mind too much this time around.  Jessica knew that their time together was limit, so she wanted everything to be perfect.

After the drive, she let herself into Ian’s place with the copy of keys Ian had mad for her.  The first thing she noticed when she walked in the door is how Ian had left the carton of milk out on the table near a bowl of unfinished corn flakes.  “Ian is SO messy!” she said aloud as she immediately began cleaning the kitchen and tidying up the house before he got home, which was in an hour.  Jessica also lit a few candles to mask the bachelor scent Ian had all over the house. “Ummm, it finally smells like a lady is here.”  Jessica thought to herself after she had finished up.  Jessica then headed back out to the car to retrieve her bags.  She wanted to shower before Ian got home, ready and waiting in the new lingerie she had bought especially for him.

Ian finally walks in the door…

Soon as Jessica seen him walk in (and without waiting for him to put his things down), jumped in his arms to meet him.  He hugged her tightly as he took in a deep breath with a sigh of relief that she made it to him safe and sound.  Ian scooped her in as if they could be any closer kissing her neck, cheek and finally her lips.  They greeted each other like this each time the spent time together, because it always felt like an eternity since they’d seen one another.

“I have something for you sweetie, hope you like it” says Ian, then he pulls out two digital key chains.  One had a picture of her and the other had a picture of him.  He handed her the one with his picture on it and said, “I want you to have this with you at all times, so that you’ll know that I am always with, thinking about you, wanting you and needing you.  It also has our song locked in it and I want you to listen to it whenever you miss me.”   Then Ian pressed the tiny red button on the side of the keychain to show her the tune he installed.  The song was “forever more” by Anthony David.  When Jessica heard the song, she smiled, kissed him and said, “Oh baby, I love it…thank you!”   They continued kissing near the front door as if time stood still a moment for them.

Jessica reluctantly backed away from his sweet kisses and said, “Okay, okay, go freshen up baby; I want you so bad right now! You were the first thing on my mind this morning…been almost tasting you ever since.”  Ian pulled her back, not wanting to let her go.  “You have?”  He says, while still kissing her and continuing to say, “What were you thinking?”   He whispered, pulling her closer to him and completely ignoring what she said about going to freshen up, because he just didn’t want to let her go.  He just wanted to keep breathing her in.

Jessica always smelled so good to him.  “Okay, I’ll go shower, just give me one more kiss and tell me what you were thinking this morning…was it nasty?” he says as he kissed her neck again.  “You want to know the whole thing?”  she asked, kissing his bottom lip.  Ian closed his eye, tilting his head back a bit to tease Jessica in between her kisses as he answered her, “Yes baby, all of it.”

She answers…

“Soon as I woke up this morning my thoughts were to urgently LOCK my legs around your waist, plunging you DEEP inside of me and while squeezing the walls of my wetness around the length of you, clenching my legs tight as I watch you struggled to pump deeper inside of me.  These dirty little thoughts made me feel even more anxious to see you today, so I continued by  imagining myself grasping even tighter onto you so that you could NOT escape from between my legs. In my vision, I was willing to fight to make this love session last to the bitter end.” 

Ian interrupts Jessica, “Well damn, Jessica…all that before coffee?”  Jessica places her index finger over the middle of his lips and softly says,  “Shhhhh, you are the one that wanted to hear all of it!”

She continues…

“The sound of your breath so close to my ear turned me on; making me desire you even more!  Thoughts of sex like this with you in my mind was turning ghetto really fast, so you began to try even harder to pump into me deeper.  In our struggle, my back hits against the wall and in a sexual stagger, you begin to carry me (with my legs still wrapped around you) to the nearest sofa.  By doing this, you seemed to have gained a little control by finally being on top of me.  During the shift, you didn’t bother flinching even though you clearly knocked over a lamp sitting on the end table.  Then, this part is gonna trip you out!”

Ian interrupts again, “What could possible trip me out more than these nasty thoughts of yours…I had no idea you were such a freak!”  Jessica goes on to say, “It was like I could actually hear you this morning say, Now I got you where I want you!”

“You have some imagination, but I love it…go on.”  Ian wanted to hear more. This side of Jessica really turned him on.

“Okay, so anyway, as we were on the sofa, my legs released and I allowed you to take control of the situation.  You began to slowly pull your manhood out of me, but only to the tip, then slowly re-entered deeper inside of me.  You wanted me to feel every thrust of your hardness slowly pumping in and out of me.  You did that a few times just to see the reaction on my face as I enjoyed the pure pleasure of you slowing things down a bit.  Then all of a sudden, you pulled yourself out of me completely!”  

Ian interjects, while totally engrossed in the story, “What the heck did I do that for?”  Jessica could totally see the bulge in the front of Ian’s pants and just how much he was enjoying her secret thoughts of him, so she reassured by saying, “Settle down, keep listening, there’s a method to the madness.”   

Then she goes on…

“You stood up in front of the sofa facing me and said, You like that baby?  I answer you  with a quick “yes” because I wanted more.  When I gave you my answer, you gave me a command.  You told me that If  I wanted more, that i’d have to get on my knees and lick ALL of my honey off of your manhood.  Of course in the heat of my certain thirst for more of you, I jumped up like a cadet in training and did just as you commanded; quickly, because I wanted you back inside of me! 

“I proceeded to get right on my knees and worshiped you with my entire mouth.  First I licked all my juice off of you with my tongue as if you were a lollipop, then I took in the length of you…in and out with licks in between as you watched me.  To make sure that I was truly following your command, I backed away, looked up to you and said, “baby did I do it right?”  You let out a breathy grunt. “Yes baby.”  You then proceeded to get back on top of me, but this time on the floor alongside the coffee table.”

“After tasting you, I could not wait to feel you inside of me again.  You started off by entering into me, then gaining speed slowly.  I envisioned deep desirous thrusts becoming almost violent, so I spread my legs even wider to receive all of you.  No sooner than I did that…I had my first explosion.  You could feel my body weakening, but you just kept pumping.  You said, “Girl, you gone pay for cumming so soon!” I was so weak from the orgasm you had just given me, that I no idea what you mean by that statement, nor did I care.  I was still recovering.”

“You flipped me over effortlessly on my belly and entered me from the back. I squirmed to move forward since I was still tingling, but you held onto my butt firm and made sure you kept yourself deep within me, you continued to pump so hard that I actually felt your balls slightly brush against my clit.  This sent shock waves all through my body. The feeling of you pumping deep inside of me while my clit was softly being touched caused me to have another orgasm.”

“Again?” you said in a voice like I was surely about to get what I deserve now!  You pumped harder and faster.  You took deep strokes from tip to base almost as the speed of light.  I was so weak I could barely keep my knees up to receive you, but in your punishment mode you kept me right where you wanted me by holding on to my waist firm with your strong hands.  You were in a zone and continue to pump harder, faster and harder until you came too. As you came you squeezed my butt.  Wetness from the both of us ran rapidly down my legs and the more I thought of you this way, my heart began pumping as if I had just run a marathon.  You pulled out of me to allow me to regain my strength and my breath and then I got ready to come see you.  That’s all of it.”

Ian stood there kind of speechless; because he had no idea Jessica was so visually sensual.  He had no idea she had such a strong desire for him even when he was nowhere around.  Even though he was a bit overwhelmed, it was in a good way.  Ian said, “I love the way you think of me and I think I will go take that shower now, so we can do the real thing.”


Written by Katrina Gurl for Steamy Trails Publishing.
This story was written as a tool for women to learn clever ways of telling
their men just what they want in bed, without destroying their egos!

Did you really think “Jessica” imagined all that?  HELLS-TO-THE-NO!!!  Jessica loves her man and wants to make sure (even in her need) that she puts the best interest of his heart first.

Sometimes, telling a man (some men, not all and depending on how confident he is)
that he is not quite pleasing in bed, may cause him to feel inadequate, but My Stiletto Dreams has solely been created to enhance relationships, build personal confidence and help couples enjoy their union.



TLj – 7 Instant Sexy Couple Things!

Seven things you can do right now to spice up your relationship that works everytime.


  1. Take your partner’s breath away. Do something amazingly thoughtful and out of the ordinary and try to incorporate an element of surprise in the relationship.
  2. Be mushy about them. New couples seem to do this naturally, but don’t drop this strong bonding behavior just because the relationship has progressed. This is one way to keep the romance alive and is especially powerful when making love.
  3. Learn that one move that drives them crazy in bed. Make it clear that his pleasure is your pleasure, and you want to discover everything about what turns him on. He/she will be happy to have you experiment.


  1. Do something different from the norm. If you get your partner’s heart rate up, he may associate the feeling of excitement with you and he may develop more powerful feelings for you. Going on a roller-coaster ride, taking a balloon trip, go to a secluded cabin or anything with a touch of danger to it. This can make a relationship deeper in love by doing something that you can only rely on each other for.


  1. Do something special for a person he or she loves. If you show kindness and love for someone he/she loves, you will earn major points. When you enter a relationship, you also enter a relationship with all his/her family and friends. Show that the people who are important to him/her are important to you.
  2. Document loving moments. Don’t be afraid to give voice to your love. Tell one another how you feel. Write a loving note or poem. Lovers have been doing this from the beginning of time because it works.
  3. Boost the chemicals of love. There are many brain chemicals that go into the feeling of love and attachment. Oxytocin is known as the bonding, trust, and cuddle hormone. Oxytocin is enhanced by watching romantic movies together, holding hands, cuddling, and long, loving eye contact. Women usually have more oxytocin than men, but according to one study, a man’s level of oxytocin goes up 500 percent after making love. Being too busy to make love pushes couples apart.


TLj – How to Gain a Second Chance!

For today’s post, I went to my dopest friend for ideas on what to write about today. Ya see, sometimes us perpetual bloggers literally run out of fresh ideas, so I was happy that he replied quickly. He gladly gave me the topic and told me to call it “second chances.” I then asked him to elaborate a bit and that I’d start writing right away. He said, “Write about ways to reconnect with a long, lost, love and advice on reigniting a dying flame.”

With his simple suggestion, I immediately thought of a list of things a person can do to “gain a second chance!” If we focus on our own actions first, more times than not reigniting flames will come naturally. Flames always spark when we do what it takes to 031b999a8796abddb425606ba6e4b338--black-and-black-black-lovepromote the fire. And, if you think you deserve a second chance, you have to prove that there is nothing to be afraid of going forward. He or she must understand that previous issues won’t resurface in the future.

Now, we all remember learning about the Stop, Look, and Listen rule, right?  This was a warning tactic that was taught children to stay safe, but we still need that same type of safety in our relationships too. Am I right?  Sometimes all people need to do to repair broken relationships are already within them if they take notice. All we need are these 3 steps to build what will most likely will never fade anyway…


Assess the situation around you. Be aware of how your actions may be making the other person feel and have understanding and empathy.


Be willing to look at the person in the mirror….that means you! Acknowledge your own wrongs as opposed the other persons. Be willing to say sorry and mean it! Keeping in mind that the rebuilding process may take a moment, so never place an estimated time on someone else’s healing process.


Be meaningful in your words and always make sure they match your efforts. There is nothing worse than a person that talks the talk, but never walks the walk!!!

In closing, I personally am a big fan of second chances. However, if I am the one giving the second chance, I want to come out the other end of this thing UNDERSTOOD, RESPECTED and BETTER!

A special thanks to my friend for leading me on this particular topic and happy Tuesday to you all.

Put A Wedge In It Blogs – Look at this Mitch!

Look at this #Mitch! #Repost @kevinhart4real ・・・Kevin Hart cheated on his pregnant wife just like he did in his first marriage and has finally put out a lame “I’m not perfect apology” video! 

Which this video only comes in lieu of the woman he cheated with trying to extort money from him to keep her mouth shut! 

Humph…!!! When are people gonna realize that being perfect is not what keeps us from CHEATING!!! COMMITMENT is what keeps folks from hurting their partners!!!