“You can fool some of the people all of the time, and all of the people some of the time, but you cannot fool all the people all the time.” ~ Abraham Lincoln
Truth: Getting comfortable in your relationship is a common goal for all women. Ya come to the point where you are enjoying his company to the fullest and the IT happens! He answers his phone in another room. And then, you find yourself second guessing if you can really trust this guy. Let’s face it…some men are trustworthy and some aren’t, you just have to pay attention and see what the person is really about.
But, what are the signs of truth?
Listen closely to your date’s words. Are their words consistent? Do they back their words up with action? A person, who is trustworthy, is consistent, both in words and action. There is never a contradiction between their words and actions.
Look for signs of support and encouragement. A trustworthy person tends to be supportive and encouraging. They are sincerely concerned for your well-being and not out for what just benefits them.
Pay attention to how well he focuses on you when in public. Are they looking around at the opposite sex every chance they get while in your presence? If they are behaving this way early on, they’ll be much worse if you get deeply involved.
Observe how he treats others when in public, such as a restaurant do they treat the waiter/waitresses with respect and patience? A person, who is disrespectful and demanding in public, will probably treat you that way eventually
Pay attention to how he reacts to your desires. Are they open to your suggestions or do they always want things their way? A person who is trustworthy knows how to share and has a sincere desire to build a relationship on mutual giving and taking, not a one-sided relationship. Let us know if this post has helped you below.