Tuesday’s Love Jones – Create Sexy Sex!


Tuesday’s Love Jones – Create Sexy Sex
By Katrina Gurl

Here at Put a Wedge In It Blogs, as a relationship coach, my marriage has pretty much become an open book, LITERALLY, since the release of “Learning to Protect Your Marriage” in 2013. I find myself wanting to share every great moment my hubs and I share, so that it may help immediately in your marriages and relationships.

I recently went to work with my hubs during a Canada trip and unknowingly, even though this was a trip for me…it was really work for him (he’s a truck driver).  I was amazed at how he perfectly planned the 2 weeks.

We stopped at so many romantic restaurants and the cutest hotels along the way.  In between his deliveries our dates panned out seamlessly. And all though I had to get out at a few truck stops along the way, he made it all seem like an adventure.

We both love Chinese food, so we stepped into the cozy 899 Kitchen in NANAIMO, BC. The service was wonderful, food was delicious and we laughed a talked like we were teens all over again. As we were there I thought of something kind of cool to bring that youthful, nonchalant sexy sex in our relationship.

As I sat there in the “899 Kitchen,” numbers began to pop in my head and since I was on a romantic trip with my hubs…well, I dunno the number 69 popped in my head and then I opened my fortune cookie and it LITERALLY said, YOU ARE A LOVER OF WORDS, SOMEDAY YOU SHOULD WRITE A BOOK.

Now, you’re probably thinking the obvious – what in the world does THAT have to do with her thinking of the number 69?

Anyway, I figured that since we were at a Chinese restaurant, that had fortune cookies, why not incorporate erotic fortune cookies in our love life.  Everyone likes pulling a perfect little saying that one can apply to their lives, accept with the erotic fortune cookies, the saying happen now…no waiting, wishing and hoping the saying come to pass…NOW!

“Now is a good time to try something new… in bed.”

Even if you’ve been married for YEARS or have a list of physical limitations, there still is room for some creativity during sexual intimacy. And by “creativity,” I mean the kind that won’t compromise your marriage values.  Just plain ole newness, fun and sexy sex with you lover.

Along with adding some erotic fortune cookies to spice up the bedroom here are 5 other Ideas

Men are visual (another post on sexual Teasing)

I don’t need a survey to tell me that guys tend to be more visually-stimulated than women! Your man wants to experience YOU without having to first navigate through three layers of flannel. And forget the “turn out the lights thing” If having full light is a problem for you, then light some candles! EVERYONE has an hourglass figure in candle light!!! Take things slow and let him experience your body. Visually and physically.

Get some sexy confidence going

I don’t want to minimize any body image struggles you may have, but please note that men NEVER notice the flaws that we see in ourselves.  Have a little faith in the POWER of being a woman.  In all honest our husbands would touch our breasts and butts 24/7 if we’d allow it and yes, even in public. I am always finding myself all out smacking my hubs for rubbing on my butt way to much in public!

Massage him.

Massage therapy is like a personal hypnotist to the muscles in our bodies.  Massage can relax muscle tissue, which may lead to decreased nerve compression, increased joint space, and range of motion.  Get it? Massage helps RANGE OF MOTION!

The power of touch (another post on touch)

Unless you are already having amazing sex on a regular basis, I’m willing to bet there are parts of your husband’s body you have not really explored. If you REALLY want to turn him on…take your time caressing and massaging every inch of his body before you start touching his penis and testicles.  From head to toe, touch him with a good mix of light caresses and deep massage.  Concentrate on his body with love and passion and I would be willing to bet his arousal will be noticeable. Humph…I’m just saying.

 

Get on top of him (another post on better orgasms)

I realize some wives have this move mastered, but many have not.  A woman on top puts her in control of her orgasm timing AND control of how she decides to tease or pamper her man’s MANHOOD!

Have a wonderful TUESDAY!

Purchase those EROTIC COOKIES here

Purchase my RELATIONSHIP book here

And if you don’t feel body confident purchases GET WAISTED body corsets here

 

One Comment on “Tuesday’s Love Jones – Create Sexy Sex!

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