For a LOT of men (NOT ALL), the female orgasm can be a TOTAL mystery to say the least and for some women, (NOT ALL) taking time to teach your guy how and where to please you can take away from the enjoyment of sex! Not everyone is fit to be teachers and there are a lot of women that don’t find joy in directly showing a man steps to her orgasmic state.
AskKat says that women can experience different types of orgasms and can even have multiple orgasms? It’s true! Sadly, many women can go YEARS without an orgasm from her partner, and AIN’T NOBODY GOT TIME FOR THAT!
We, of Put A Wedge In It Blogs, do earnestly urge confident girls to speak up and tell your guy exactly what you want IN BED, but for those that don’t…fellas we have some tatful tips that will help you help yourself next time you’re intimate with your lady.
SEX DOESN’T NEED TO START IN THE BEDROOM – When was the last time you surprised her with flowers or something special just because? Believe it or not, for women, silly romantic gestures turn women just because it’s something that you took special time to do and that is sexy as hell. Do this and I personally promise that you’ll be doing more than just going to sleep tonight.
SEDUCE HER – Orgasm don’t come easy when a woman is stressed, so give her a foot massage to melt away that stress.
TEND TO THE PASSION OF THE MOMENT – Focus all your attention on the woman first and this session will be much more passionately. Focus on genuinely pleasing every inch of her body selflessly.
MAKE IT LAST – The best way NOT to come so quickly is to penetrate as normal, but when you feel like you’ll release. Just slow it down a bit until the feeling of coming subsides. You can do it if you really want her to enjoy a great orgasm. No one likes when a guy comes too fast.
NATURAL WETNESS – A woman’s vajayjay is a dream machine (if she’s healthy) as stated in “Learning to Protect Your Marriage” her natural lubricant is more than enough. Those store bought lubes are nowhere near better than the real thing.
BE EASY ON THE CLIT – Did you know that once you’ve overly stimulated the clitoris there’s a little thing called the clitoral hood that will actually come out and cover the clitoris to protect it from further direct stimulation? (True stuff, fellas)! When that happens, this would be a great time to sexually venture somewhere else, the G-spot.
SPOT THE “G” SHE WILL THANK YOU – The G-spot is a zone that feels like the roof of your mouth and is located about 2 inches inside the vagina on the topside. There are two basic ways you can pleasure the G. With your fingers by doing a “come here” motion or with a love position that helps hit the G-spot and be sure to clip your nails if you are attempting this.
LET HER BE IN CONTROL – One of THEE best positions for women to secure an orgasm is the reverse missionary (on top). She can control the friction to her clitoris and/or G-spot perfectly.
EAT IT – THEE BESTEST way to help a woman reach orgasm, even multiple orgasms, is by going down on her (cunnilingus style). There are over 6,000 nerve ending in the clitoris alone and oral sex is is good way to bring your tongue in on the action.
Hope these tips helped!
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