Not all men like to spank, but those that “DO”…It’s just something that may turn him on. Some men just plain and simply “LIKE BUTTS”. If he likes your butt, he will play with it AND touch it every chance he gets especially during sex. It’s just an exciting thing for him. It also gives “some” men a sense of entitlement towards their woman. So please believe that some men even like to “spank” when they are “NOT” having sex. You can use it as a self-esteem boost, because when your beau walks up to you and gives you a little tap on that @$$. It’s a way of him letting you know that he notices you and he likes what he sees, so take it as a compliment!
Now perhaps back in the day, a guy would have been able to go around SPANKING his women for no rhyme or reason, but in today’s world…women will NOT just up and allow you to go spaking on them at random, so our spanking pros over on “ask men blogs” have given us a list of should and should not’s before attempting to spank!!!
How To Spank Her
Don’t wind up like a maniac just yet; there is an actual etiquette to spanking women:
Obviously, I don’t mean that you should jog around the block; rather, rub your hands together to ensure that they’re warm when they connect with her skin.
Choose the hand
Although right-handed people tend to use their right hands, you can opt to use whichever hand you’re more comfortable with — or even both, just not at the same time.
One cheek at a time
Just to reiterate; never smack both cheeks at the same time; not only will you not be able to do your spanking adequately, you may end up hurting her, in a bad way.
Place yourself in a position where you’re able to maneuver freely and accurately. The last thing you want to do is smack her on her back or thigh.
Keep your hand tight
By keeping your hand solid and slightly cupping your hand, you ensure a nice sound, a slight sting and a whole lot of pleasure.
Smack it up
Remember that you’re aiming for the meatiest part of her butt, which is the middle. After you actually slap her cheek, rub the area with your hand for a moment before you attempt to have another go at it.
Let Your Hand Guide You
Here are some general guidelines you might want to follow amid your upcoming spankathon .
Make sure you have ample room
If you want to spank that bottom right, you need to ensure that you have enough room to raise your arm freely and spank it accordingly. Sit or stand in a position where your arm can swing freely. This leaves less room for unintended mis-smacks .
Keep the butt in plain view
Her butt should be bare and fully visible for the act. She can be in the doggy position (tight-butted) or lying down flat (loose butted) — so long as her butt is easily accessible to your hand. Even when she’s riding you, you can still spank her sufficiently.
Don’t ask things like “Did that hurt?” or “Can I do it harder?” What you should do is spank her and judge what to do by her reaction. If she screams out in agony or says anything remotely close to “are you trying to kill me?” you should refrain from spanking her any harder.
If she doesn’t yell out, or better yet if she moans with delight, then I strongly recommend that you spank her slightly harder and don’t forget that you shouldn’t spank her in quick procession. Take your time, this is an art, after all.