Here at My Stiletto Dreams we are BIG believers that “you are as old as you feel” BUT, should there be an age limit on when men should stop being the creepy old guy in the club? Chris Rock says it best: “You don’t wanna be the old guy in the club.”
See here’s the thing, the problem with acting the age that we feel on the inside, may be the same reason we are making fools of ourselves in public places. As we age, mature and develop into older adults it should also show in the company we keep and the places we frequent. Rather you believe it or not age shows up crisp and clear when you are among a group of youngsters half your age. Not only does it look creepy, but it also looks hopeless to see yet ANOTHER guy…be that guy, not wanting to accept that he ain’t got it no mo and still needing to prove to himself WEEKLY that he can still rack um in AND might we add, that the old guy in the club clearly appears to have the lowest self esteem. Anyone can rack in an impressionable, immature, 21-25 year old chic that has not experienced life, (speaking in some cases not all) but will that same creepy guy that still goes clubbin like a child stand up to the whiles of a real woman…a woman his own age???
This Tuesdays Love Jones segment is for the guys. My Stiletto Dreams wants men to feel comfortable with settling down, getting real and living a life that you will be proud of…NOT LATER…NOW!!!!
Don’t be that guy and here is how:
1) Get interested in finding real love and diminish the excuse of trying to find yourself. If you have not found yourself at 35 ya need to stop looking! Never settle for less than what you want, but at least understand that what you are looking for may not be in the local club scene.
2) Stop thinking settling down is like a curse! It’s in our nature to settle down…even animals do it!!!!!
3) Understand that giving real love a chance is not a dose of TNT! Understand that you deserve to have a relationship with someone just as great and energetic as you to share life with.
Think about it guys!