Tuesday’s Love Jones!

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 Today is Tuesday’s Love Jones

Has your relationship or marriage fell into a rut? Well, if you are like most couples facing everyday life…sure you have. Love jones tip of the week is to “Talk Dirty” to your lover, I mean go completely out side of the box with this tip.

Don’t go too far with vulgar language at first…allow your partner to warm up to this new spice in the relationship. Words are powerful and when sensually communicated, they are even more powerful.

At first, if you are like me, you may be a bit shy with speaking sexual things aloud, so start off with a few innuendos instead. By that I mean, take something very simple and say it in a way that will take his mind to another place.

Sensually say things like, “hey honey, how was your day? Is there anything you need me to do for you?”  Touch him and let him clearly know that you mean this in a sexual way.  Give lots of eye contact and soften your movements.  This will make him feel at ease and eager to see what you have in store for him.

Go all un-ordinary with it and even offer him to take a shower with you. Bring back the good old days when sex was easy in the relationship and less of a chore.

The shower is perfect for foreplay, because the ambiance is already perfect. You have the steam intensifying each touch, the soap making things slick and a nice cozy shelter that brings you two closer.

3 Trigger Spots for Men:

His Lower Lip – Take full control of him while making out; suck his lower lip into your mouth. Use the tip of your tongue to stroke up and down his lip. Erogenous zones are being teased that way and you will have him on edge in NO time and by keeping his lower lip inside yours, you magnify the sensation with every stroke.

His Nipples – Ladies, we are not the only ones with feelings in our nips, guys do too! Nipples for men go uncharted, but a man’s nipples are often times MORE sensitive than a woman, so touch them, lick them and gently bite them.  This is a VERY important erogenous zone for guys.

His Shaft If you follow this week’s love jones tip, you will probably end up in the shower with you guy tonight, so please squeeze some soap in the palm of your hands and give your man the ultimate “HAND LOVIN.” YES I SAID IT…”HAND LOVIN!”

Face him in the shower, make two tight rings around his penis with the thumb and index finger of both your soapy hands, placing the rings one on top of the other in the middle of his shaft. Slide the lathery rings in opposite directions, going back and forth from the base to the head simultaneously. The motion of that twist and the slickness of you warm soapy hands will give him ultimate pleasure.  Start off teasingly slow, then gradually UP that speed as you continue to tease and play with his penis as your own private toy.

The place with the highest density of nerve endings on a man’s body is called the frenulum. The frenulum is found on the underside of the penis, just behind the head.  Approach this area with caution!

You may want to check out The Balcony View – Introduction of the Lover, there is an amazing shower scene in chapter two.

Remember, to take things slow, but make positive things happen in your relationship each day….It is possible!

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9 Comments on “Tuesday’s Love Jones!

  1. Snap!


    and M.F’in


    While those 3 trigger points are important, there are MANY other places that women should experiment with…

    As I said before…
    the “entire human skin” is the “biggest sex organ!!!”

    free your mind!


  2. Mutuo…you give us the BEST replies, I swear!
    Admin is in stitches over here!!!

    YES, to the entire human skin and YES ppl, especially ppl
    in committed relationships SHOULD explore each other sexually and completely OVER AND OVER again!!!!!


    • To the Admin. Department – Please forgive me for my enthusiasm.
      (you just shouldn’t allow some children in the candy store without a responsible adult!!!)

      Communication about being loving and sex can be intimidating to many people.
      And while there are those that ARE comfortable, there is NOTHING wrong with being shy about the discussion just because others (like me) aren’t.

      A spouse or committed sex partner that is patient, communicates and cares about more than them-self will go a long way towards making the relationship better,
      both in and out of the bed (or where ever you decide to share love.)

      Liked by 1 person


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